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Sweet Tea, Sirs, & subs: A Podcast Steeped in Southern Sweetness & Kinky Realness
SWEET TEA, SIRS & SUBS is where Southern charm meets the truth about power, pleasure, and connection.
Hosted by Hope Maxwell, this podcast re-imagines BDSM as an elegant, emotionally intelligent conversation about consent, trust, and the art of intimacy. Each week, Hope pours a fresh glass of perspective – mixing education, storytelling, and a touch of magnolia-scented sass – to explore how we communicate, lead, follow, and love with integrity.
Around here, safety is sexy, structure is a gift, and vulnerability is a strength.
Whether you’re a Dominant, submissive, switch, or simply curious, pull up a porch chair and join us every Spicy Saturday for tender truths, Southern wit, and real-world wisdom about living – and loving -by design, not default.
Pull up a chair on the porch, pour yourself a glass of sweet tea, and settle in with Hope Maxwell for a truth-soaked lesson in discernment.
In this episode, we’re talkin’ about vetting — the gracious, grounded way to find out who’s who before you hand over your heart, your trust, or your handcuffs.
From polite observation to quiet background checks, Hope blends Southern etiquette with real-world BDSM wisdom.
You’ll learn:
- 🩷 How to tell sugar from saccharine — real sweetness from the kind that leaves an aftertaste
- 🍑 Five steps for safe, smart, and mutual vetting
- 🌙 Why listening to your gut is the most powerful tool you have
- 💌 A special listener Q & A about “cracks” that appear after the honeymoon phase
- 📜 Free printables: The Southern Sub’s Vetting Checklist + The Gentleman’s Vetting Guide
Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or seasoned as Sunday gravy, this porch-swing talk will help you keep your standards polished and your peace intact.
🫖 Resources & Links
- Printable guides + playlist: https://bit.ly/Vetting-TeaTunes
- Submit questions: info@sirsandsubs.com
Just a show note. Next week is Thanksgiving and our episode on gratitude will release on Saturday, November 29.
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sweet-tea-sirs-and-subs/donations
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